Do you have LACK of money (or LACK of anything)? Here are the solutions!

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Here is an answer I wrote for another thread (regarding the emotional issues people face in making, keeping and growing their money), but I decided it needs a new thread. This also applies to ANY lack or lack of balance in society!

Money or success at anything requires balance, growth, maturity, understanding, smarts, awareness & self confidence. It is like playing a game. Like ice skating. If you have the above qualities, you can become a great ice skater fast! However in the area of money many humans have lots of resistances.

Spiritually, the way I like to think about it is what people want most is FLOW. If you have flow, or you focus on flow, everything else will come naturally, including money. Here is a diagram I drew about this about a year ago:



The reason people don't have flow is because they have blockages in their energy flow. The biggest blockage generally is lack of self confidence, self love, and self image. Many, many people have a worm in the dust mentality. "Who am I kidding? I don't deserve this! I can't do this. I'm not good enough." (Your inner critic constantly berates you day in day out -- my inner state used to be like this decades ago.) However there are many other blockages such as fear, worry, greed, etc. These blockages can be healed. I have found some simple, powerful ways of spiritual / emotional healing that work very well for me and others I have shared them with. You don't necessarily need a healer. You can heal yourself once you know some simple methods (I share them free). But a professional healer would be good if you can afford it. (I have included more info on a free self healing method that works powerfully at the bottom of this thread This is what I used 20 years ago on myself. Read this entire thread first - it's great info!)

The other way I like to see this is people need balance. There is tremendous lack of balance in people's lives and our world these days. There is too much greed. Too much focus on money and not enough focus on love, compassion, joy, gratitude (or what I call the softer or feminine energies). In our society the masculine energies are dominant and the feminine energies are non-existent. So the Yin and Yang blades of the fan are out of balance. This is like blades of a fan. Suppose the 2 blades of a fan are in perfect balance. Then the fan can spin fast and there is flow. Then the fan can give air and we can enjoy the fan. However in our society and in many people's lives, one blade (masculine or mind) is totally dominant and the other blade (feminine or heart) is non-existent. How can the fan spin? It cannot spin because it is jammed. So there is no flow. When there is no flow, there is lack of money, compassion, love & lots of other things. There is suffering. There is dis-ease. The biggest cause of most illnesses is emotional. (I have had perfect health for decades - and I attribute it largely to knowing these things. I never get sick even though I used to be sick all the time many years ago.)

I couldn't find a 2 blade fan, so this will have to do (but you get the idea ):


The good news is that people are understanding these things, so we are on our way to healing ourselves, our society and world! I see millions of people on the path to healing! This is great!

Here is another great diagram I had to include here:



We have to learn to balance out our heart/mind or feminine/masculine or right brain/left brain or intuitive mind/rational mind or yin/yang (it's all the same thing, just different words.) Then there will be Abudant FLOW and zero LACK! As more and more people do this in their personal lives, our society and world will heal also! All this is is energy. People are starting to understand energy much better.

Hope this helps!

Note 7/27/2014 -- I realized there are many people reading this thread who are brand new to LOA (Law of Attraction) concepts. You will understand the rest of this thread better if you have watched The Secret movie first. The Secret movie is free to watch and it went viral many years ago. Hundreds of millions of people have seen it globally! Here it is:

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    • Profile picture of the author damiensuccess
      A great way of looking at life.
      Success is difficult to achieve when you overlook the essentials of what makes you happy.

      Meditate on your thoughts. Spend time understanding yourself, and whatever you lack will come back to you when you balance your emotions. Not because your thinking it, but because you will be more prone to do whatever it is needed get it.

      Thanks for sharing ma monkey!
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      • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
        Originally Posted by damiensuccess View Post

        A great way of looking at life.
        Success is difficult to achieve when you overlook the essentials of what makes you happy.

        Meditate on your thoughts. Spend time understanding yourself, and whatever you lack will come back to you when you balance your emotions. Not because your thinking it, but because you will be more prone to do whatever it is needed get it.

        Thanks for sharing ma monkey!
        Wonderfully said Damien! Here is what I wrote many years ago for another blog I created. Similar to what you just said.

        "Why does Feeling Good work? When you feel good (or train yourself to feel good constantly using the methods on this page) you are much more connected with nature, the Earth, the Higher Power (or God, Spirit, Life Force – it doesn’t matter what you call it). You are more intuitive, you are connected to your own good or your own higher path or best course. When you are feeling good constantly, your body is releasing endorphins and enhancing your immunity and making you grow younger. Your body functions move towards homeostasis or perfect health. You will also grow wealthier because you are more balanced. You will feel prosperous and do the right things. You will be connected to your Higher Guidance constantly. You will love life and yourself more and will attract good healthy relationships and Love into your life."

        You feel this Higher energy? If you train yourself to remain in this higher energy, it starts manifesting all types of good things here, there, and everywhere in your life and in our world. It is like a Vortex of energy that just grows and grows and grows! Gets bigger and bigger! It influences more and more people around you! It brings more and more wonderful opportunities to you! It makes you a magnet for all good things! Your mind becomes higher mind and brings in all types of solutions also for your life and for our world! You gain access to the "Wellspring of Creativity!"

        (I have included more about this "Wellspring of Creativity" at the bottom of this thread. Read the entire thread - it's really good info!)

        You are making a very good point regarding the fallacy around LOA. People think all they have to do is think it and it will magically appear. Then they get frustrated, why has it not appeared yet? That is NOT LOA! That is non-reality. LOA means you have an intent to move in a certain direction and everything you need to move in that direction and to achieve your goals will be attracted to you so long as you hold a certain energy or frequency. Much of what you need is internal, happiness, joy, higher vibration, flow, patience, inner strength. That is what allows everything to happen magically. That is what allows the fan to start spinning, for air to be there, for the vortex of energy to be created which starts growing and growing. And it changes you completely from the point where you started. You become more of who you REALLY are! Then you can be far more effective in helping others and our world also!
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    Nice post and point of view.

    Can you give a step by step explanation on how to get in flow?

    Cheers,

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    • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
      Originally Posted by C G View Post

      Nice post and point of view.

      Get you give a step by step explanation on how to get in flow?

      Cheers,

      C.G.
      CG. Excellent question! I have to run out but I will give a step by step explanation on how to get into flow with your Life energies shortly! How to remove all lack and be in abundant flow!
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    • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
      @C G,

      You want step by step on how to get into flow. What you are doing is shifting from a left brain/ analytical view of the world to understanding at a deep heart level that everything is energy (not just intellectually knowing it, but really knowing it). This is a process that you grow into. How long this process takes depends upon you. But using LOA, etc. will get you there. The thing is due to that there are so many people doing it these days, this process is becoming easier and much faster for everyone!

      So Step 1 I would say is stop trusting your left brain / rational mind so much. That is the critical part of you. If you do not suspend your disbelief, you cannot have access to energies. I recommend read my WF post here. This will give you a much different perspective than thinking that the rational mind is king.

      Step 2, start using LOA. Create a vision board, etc. (If you are brand new to LOA, pm me and I will help you!)

      Step 3. Learn about remaining in joyfulness. This is called higher vibration. I teach how to do this for free. (Everything I teach is free actually.) I am starting a group soon..

      Step 4: When you remain in joyfulness or higher vibration, then all the changes inside you that are necessary will occur automatically. The blockages will be removed and you will be more and more in flow, and manifesting more and more of what you want in your life.

      This is the basic process in a nutshell.

      Once you start on this path you will start feeling the infinite intelligence, creativity, power, joy! It's as if there is a greater power in your life so it gets easier and funner to keep on the path. That's why you can never stop once you're on it, because the energy is supporting you, guiding you, bringing things together for you, etc. It's a fun process. It's also trying at times because you are getting out of old habits of thinking and into new ones.

      People need some guidance through this process. That is why I am creating a group! Also read my blog because it's full of help in this area.

      Hope that helps.
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    hmm interesting read..will this help me to do work to be done.?
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    • Profile picture of the author damiensuccess
      Originally Posted by aljurians View Post

      hmm interesting read..will this help me to do work to be done.?
      Imagine a simple task
      You have to stack a tower of glassware 5 feet tall (I don't matter why, it doesn't matter)


      2 scenarios: Procrastinating vs. Get it done

      Life will get you when you procrastinate. Procrastination will have tasks build up and lead you to doing things the last minute. Getting things done when they its needs allows for plenty of time for other things.

      Scenario 1: Procrastinator things he has all day to stack the glassware, giving himself 10 minutes before I has to leave would be plenty of time. As the day goes by, he remembers, "oh yeah! I forgot to cut the grass, or clean the car yesterday. I guess I should do that"

      As he is washing the car he realized that time is short and he needs to stack the glassware. Rushing back with only a few minutes to spare he scrambles to stack the glassware. Out of clumsiness and frustration, then bumping a glass, several fall to the floor and break. Frustrated and rushed, the simple task was a failure.

      Scenario 2: Get it done.. Should we even need to think of the same scenario with someone who takes the time to fulfill any life actions when it is presented to them? I do know that frustration, being rushed, and clumsy would likely not be a part of this scenario.

      Your emotions play a big part in how your life will play out, so find balance in your thoughts and feelings. It will definitely improve your life.
      Maybe, many readers might find my "scenarios" funny or unlikely. Indeed unlikely, but certainly a possibility. I try to think about scenarios with myself in it. thinking about the possible emotions I might feel and how it will effect the outcome.
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    • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
      Originally Posted by aljurians View Post

      hmm interesting read..will this help me to do work to be done.?
      Hi @aljurians, Getting into flow means your life gets more and more effortless because you are using the energies. You must do your work, but you will find that your work gets more and more inspired and fun. You come from your Heart more.

      Here watch this video. It might explain things better.


      So instead of rowing your canoe upstream you learn to go downstream, things become easier and more fun!
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        Have you seen Three Wishes movie? It's a great movie that made an impact on me over a decade ago because it brought home the lesson about feminine vs. masculine energy.

        Here is what I wrote in my blog about it:

        In the movie, Patrick Swayze plays the part of a drifter mystic named Jack McCloud. Jack was struck by a car driven by Jane, a young widow, and broke his leg. Feeling sorry for him, Jane invites him to live at her house with her 2 kids for a short period to heal his leg. Little did they know that he is a mystic and how their life is about to change due to his ability to bring inner happiness to each of them in his unique way.

        One great part of the movie that I remember (I saw it around 15 years ago), was when Jack was coaching the baseball team of Jill’s son. The competing team was much stronger with bigger kids. The competing team’s coach was the All American energy, RAH, RAH, RAH, GO, GO, GO, WIN, WIN, WIN (strong masculine energy) type coach. Jack had a totally different approach. Jack’s team kids were totally dejected because they felt there was no way they could win the game against the much stronger competing team.

        I remember the scene in which Jack brought his kids together. He instructed all of them to throw all the mitts and bat on the ground. They were confused but they did it. Then he told the kids to sit down on the ground. They did so. Then he instructed them to start chanting OM. They were totally befuddled but they did it. The movie is based in the 50′s when no one in America understood this type of behavior. (Now everyone is doing it on Facebook, it seems!) Anyhow, Jack brought his kids in tune with their inner flow or inner energy or joy so they were able to develop their skills and they won. In fact the entire movie is exactly about this, how Jack influenced everyone he came across due to his unique ability and awareness. I recommend you see this movie!
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    Originally Posted by IntuitiveMonkey View Post

    Here is an answer I wrote for another thread (regarding the emotional issues people face in making, keeping and growing their money), but I decided it needs a new thread. This also applies to ANY lack or lack of balance in society!
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    Super great post indeed!!
    I accessed this thread while going through your other thread.
    I really like the way you coherently explain the concept of Law of attraction.
    Although it is the much hyped concept, but requires much deeper understanding. Simply reading The Secret is not enough.

    Articles like yours gives a deeper understanding on how to actually understand and practice Law of attraction philosophy.

    Thanks for sharing your philosophies.
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    • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
      Originally Posted by Vikram Anand View Post

      Super great post indeed!!
      I accessed this thread while going through your other thread.
      I really like the way you coherently explain the concept of Law of attraction.
      Although it is the much hyped concept, but requires much deeper understanding. Simply reading The Secret is not enough.

      Articles like yours gives a deeper understanding on how to actually understand and practice Law of attraction philosophy.

      Thanks for sharing your philosophies.
      @VikramAnand,

      Thanks for your comments! I totally agree reading the Secret is not enough! (If you are brand new to LOA, I recommend watching the Secret move. It is below.)

      That is why I created my blog and group. I really believe that our world will change enormously as more and more people understand and use LOA the right way! It really really works! It has changed my life and millions of people's lives!

      Most people in our world are stuck in the mechanistic, rational mind thinking. That is the reason for the huge problems such as extreme inequality of income, mass shootings in schools and so much more! Now I believe everyone is wanting more balance. They want to return to balance. So the pendulum is shifting in the other direction now.

      Read my blog. I think you'll enjoy it!

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      • Profile picture of the author JagSEO
        I see Intuitive is Banned because he posted some fb groups in here. I told him not to be negative about it, this forum has rules and we should respect it. The best thing he can do is to register again for a new account. Don't worry my friend just register again.
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        • Profile picture of the author JagSEO
          Intuitive Monkey will be back July 7 lifting the Banned.

          Just enjoy what you have to do and accomplish and see you on July 7.

          Take care my friend!
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          Originally Posted by JagSEO View Post

          I see Intuitive is Banned because he posted some fb groups in here. I told him not to be negative about it, this forum has rules and we should respect it. The best thing he can do is to register again for a new account. Don't worry my friend just register again.
          Actually I never posted FB groups in WF. I just talked a little about our FB group. Never provided any link to it. But I have learnt to be very careful what I post on here now. Anyhow, I am back! Thanks.
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  • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
    I had mentioned the "Wellspring of Creativity" in one of the posts above. If you are interested in reading more about this topic, I have written another WF post here.
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    Good stuff! I like that post you shared Intuitive Monkey.
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      Originally Posted by mariamcm View Post

      Good stuff! I like that post you shared Intuitive Monkey.
      @mariamcm, Thanks! I see you are an LOA gal! Let's connect and light up this WF and the rest of the net on fire with LOA magic! He he
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    How do you figure out what is causing the blockage in order to get it to flow?
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    • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
      Originally Posted by Newbie11 View Post

      How do you figure out what is causing the blockage in order to get it to flow?
      @Newbie11, Great question! The best way to do it is to work on the next thing that you are aware of. Read my other WF post on how to deal with any negative energy here. This will help greatly with most blockages. As you start doing this, you also start learning more about higher vibration or joyfulness, which over time removes all blockages (I will teach you how!)

      Another piece of advice, don't call yourself a newbie. You'll have much more success!
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    I had mentioned in a post above that I will give you more info on a powerful self healing method that I used for myself 20 years ago. I wrote another WF thread about it here.
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    • Profile picture of the author Riitta
      Couldn't help myself...
      One vital thing I would add to these good instructions is INTUITION.

      The only way to achieve permanent abundance (money, love, health....) is to learn how to use your intuition for the making of the right choices in your life. Using your intuition is the only way to guide yourself to your purpose in this lifetime and when you follow your true purpose and take action in alignment with it, the rest (abundance) will follow.

      I would also emphasize the fact that because we are humans, negative emotions are part of being a human. Perfection is a form of negativity. If you try by force to get rid of negativity, you are creating stress - which is negativity. "Trying" to change your thinking to positive will just bring more "trying" instead of a change. Not all negativity is bad, for ex. anger can be harnessed to our benefit as it can be a very powerful action builder: "I'm not going to tolerate this lack situation anymore, I'm going to do something about it", instead of blaming our circumstances or some people of our lack situation.
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      • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
        Originally Posted by Riitta View Post

        Couldn't help myself...
        One vital thing I would add to these good instructions is INTUITION.

        The only way to achieve permanent abundance (money, love, health....) is to learn how to use your intuition for the making of the right choices in your life. Using your intuition is the only way to guide yourself to your purpose in this lifetime and when you follow your true purpose and take action in alignment with it, the rest (abundance) will follow.

        I would also emphasize the fact that because we are humans, negative emotions are part of being a human. Perfection is a form of negativity. If you try by force to get rid of negativity, you are creating stress - which is negativity. "Trying" to change your thinking to positive will just bring more "trying" instead of a change. Not all negativity is bad, for ex. anger can be harnessed to our benefit as it can be a very powerful action builder: "I'm not going to tolerate this lack situation anymore, I'm going to do something about it", instead of blaming our circumstances or some people of our lack situation.
        Yes, these are excellent suggestions! Intuition is the bedrock! Also balance between intuition and reason.

        I also agree about the negative emotions so long as the overall energy is mostly positive. It is not a matter of getting rid of negativity or suppressing it. It is transmuting it, slowly, gradually. Also being aware. Letting the negativity give you an understanding of what is wanted and then creating more in that direction.

        I have taught myself for many years how to remain in this higher vibration (joyfulness, well being) energy and I feel this has provided incredible benefit. Almost a Higher Power over and above my own power. Living this way, I don't experience negativity for too long. Maybe a minute or so and then I'm in my well being space again. It creates incredible FLOW in my life! Very grateful for that!

        Thanks for sharing!
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