A relaxed breath and butthole is all you’ll ever need.
— M'kali-Hashiki

our very existence is an act of resistance


Fam. Words right now really fail to grasp the breadth of the situation we’re in, so I’m not even gonna try.

Our rage, our grief, our fear, all of it is valid. Let us come together and hold each other with our breath and feel whatever the fuck it is we want to feel, outside of the White Gaze, outside of the Media. Let us circle and remind ourselves how precious we are, how valid our emotions are, how much we have overcome, and how far we will go together. Let us gather together and find what comfort we can from one another. To remind our bodies that we have not & will not swallow the lie that it is of low value, To fall into our connection to the Ancestors who protect us and to our Descendants who will benefit from the holy work that is being done. To feel all of our heartbeats in the sound of your inhale & exhale.

These sessions are open to all Black people, with a special encouragement to those who’ve been out in the streets protesting, and to the Black healers supporting them.

What Is Erotic Breathwork?

Breath is an anchor, a vehicle, a springboard. Breath is the glue that keeps us in our bodies & connects us deeply to those around us. Erotic Breathwork is a way of breathing that allows you to access your erotic energy, and harness it for transformative fuel.

What Happens During A Session?

I’ll start with a land acknowledgement, an Invocation to the Ancestors, and a Blessing. Then I’ll go into the logistics, and a very quick instruction of each breath. There will be a break for you to gather any materials, and then the breathwork itself. After there will be 10 optional minutes of free-writing, and 10 optional minutes of sharing, commenting, or asking questions.

Who Are These Sessions For?

These sessions are for any Black folx involved in the recent protests (and any Black healers supporting them). Most of my are QTPOC-centered, not QTPOC-exclusive—these sessions are Black Queer/SGL-centered. This means that cis-ness (agreeing with the gender designation you were given at birth) and heterosexuality are not “the default human”, and that those needs will not be catered to at the expense of people historically multiply-marginalized by The State. The needs, desires, safety, & blessed humanity of Black Queer/SGL are the focus & the foundation of these sessions. If you can roll with that, you are more than welcome.

Who Are These Sessions Not For?

This space is not for folx harboring a hierarchical value system for human bodies’ worth. This is not a space for people invested in isms/phobia (including the less commonly mentioned ones: transphobia/erasure; anti-sexworker beliefs/equating sexwork with sex-trafficking; fatphobia).

Are There Any Contra-Indications?

Erotic Breathwork is not a substitute for diagnosis and/or treatment by a licensed health professional. While breathwork is an excellent way to manage some chronic pain issues, it can exacerbate some lung or heart issues. And although breathwork is an excellent way to manage stress, depression, anxiety, fear, and grief, it can also complicate some mental health issues. A more complete list of contraindications can be found on the signup page.

How Should I Prepare?

The sessions will be held on Zoom. If you don’t already have it, you can download it here. You’ll want the best sound possible, This usually means headphones/earbuds & wired internet. WiFi & a speaker can work just fine depending on the strength of your connection and the quality of your speaker.

You want to be somewhere comfortable without a lot of bright light. You should have on non-restrictive clothing (nude is also a great option!), a blanket, some water, something to write/take notes with/on/in, whatever cushions you need to be comfortable, and possibly some tissues.

You’ll receive a more detailed email before the session.

How Many People Are In Each Session?

There is no limit to how many people may join a session. The interactions between attendees is kept to a minimum, you are on your own intimate journey, in your own private bubble. But all of us together create a CyberCircle of Healing that we simultaneously contribute to & withdraw from during the session. Community is created in many ways and just being together, feeling all of your emotions, and sharing breath is one way.